me: haha I don’t really have nonverbal episodes also me: the idea of talking sounds overwhelming and excruciating so what if I just type at everyone for the next 12 hours
putting discussion of this under a readmore bc it’s about the intersection of neuroatypicality + gender-nonconformity, but from like, a cis lesbian perspective? so your mileage may vary tl;dr hannah gadsby, same hat
Mmm I’ve been sick way too long, I haven’t been taking care of my slightly-sprained ankle properly, my wife is having some kind of terrifying allergy, and I am yet again forced to do the uncomfortable math of “will we feel safe celebrating at Pride events” because fffffffucking terrorists Don’t like it!
My parents are stopping by on Monday and I’m running up against the fact that I can’t just never mention tattoos to them ever, but: Uh excuse me this is ART I am finding a way to be at home with my human body that doesn’t depend on being a particular size I am thirty […]
i forgot that you can turn off seeing retweets from specific people which is, my friends, a godsend because there’s some people where i like their original content but they frequently RT inflammatory stuff or respond to bad actors’ content which means that the original bad content gets shoved into my feed, and i’m not about […]
From “Among the Heterosexuals” in We Wear the Mask Anyway, remembering this quote is miles better than getting hecked up about seeing arguments on social media.
I appreciate the support 👏🏼
can tell the hair stuff i bought is working because suddenly my hair is a wavy puff again, lmao. i’m not sure people appreciate the degree to which my hair has VOLUME because it’s been bleached to shit for most of the last couple years. I was growing my undercut out but maybe i’ll have […]
a part of you is convinced, convinced that you could make a situation better via meddling, except you’re vaguely sure that’s not very healthy for anyone and that maybe you should just let it go wherever it’s going to go, except also being adjacent to it is causing you to lose your own fucking mind […]
bought myself an expensive-ass shampoo/conditioner/hair mask set from an internet company that promises a customized formula for your hair needs + location~ let’s see if this works